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Sayangilah isteri pertama anda..

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Once upon a time, there was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best. He also loved the 3rd wife very much.

He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men. He loved his 2nd wife, too. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant's confidante.

Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times. Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household.

However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her. One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be!"

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, "I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart.

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" "No!" replied the 3rd wife. "Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!"

The merchant's heart sank and turned cold. He then asked the 2nd wife, "I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave."

The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated. Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go. The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny,almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have!"

We all have 4 wives in our lives. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it'll leave us when we die.

Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material wealth and sensual pleasure. It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it's a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than wait until we're on our death bed to lament.
 
sayangilah jiwa .. sesungguh dia akan dibawa bersama.. mari kita beramal..:D
 
English to Malay translation



Suatu ketika, ada seorang pedagang kaya yang mempunyai 4 isteri. Dia mencintai isteri 4 yang paling dan dihiasi dengan jubah yang kaya dan mentraktirnya makanan lazat. Dia merawat besar dan memberi apa-apa, tapi yang terbaik. Dia juga mencintai isteri yang sangat banyak 3.

Dia sangat bangga padanya dan selalu ingin mempamerkan kepada rakan-rakannya. Namun, pedagang selalu dalam ketakutan bahawa dia akan melarikan diri dengan beberapa lelaki lain. Dia mencintai isteri 2 nya, juga. Dia adalah orang yang sangat perhatian, selalu sabar dan pada kenyataannya adalah kepercayaan peniaga.

Setiap kali peniaga itu menghadapi beberapa masalah, ia selalu berpaling ke 2 isteri dan dia selalu akan membantu dia keluar dan membantunya melalui masa-masa sulit. Sekarang, isteri 1 peniaga adalah pasangan yang sangat setia dan telah memberikan sumbangan besar dalam menjaga kekayaan dan perniagaan, serta mengurus rumah tangga.

Namun, pedagang tidak mencintai isteri pertama dan walaupun ia sangat mencintainya, dia tidak memperhatikan dirinya. Suatu hari, si pedagang jatuh sakit. Tak lama, ia tahu bahawa ia akan segera meninggal. Dia teringat kehidupan mewah dan berkata pada dirinya sendiri, "Sekarang aku punya 4 isteri dengan saya Tapi ketika aku mati., Aku akan sendirian Bagaimana kesepian Aku akan!."

Dengan demikian, dia meminta isteri 4, "mencintai aku yang paling anda, anda diberkahi dengan pakaian terbaik dan berhati-hati mandi selama anda Sekarang aku sekarat,. Akan kau mengikuti aku dan menemaniku?" "Tidak mungkin!" jawab isteri ke-4 dan ia pergi tanpa sepatah kata pun. Jawabannya memotong seperti pisau tajam ke kanan hati peniaga.

Pedagang sedih lalu bertanya pada isteri 3, "Aku telah mengasihi kamu begitu banyak untuk semua hidupku Sekarang aku sekarat,. Akan kau mengikuti aku dan menemaniku?" "Tidak!" jawab isteri ke-3. "Hidup ini begitu baik di sini aku akan berkahwin lagi apabila anda mati!"

Hati pedagang itu tenggelam dan menjadi sejuk. Dia kemudian bertanya kepada isteri ke-2, "Aku selalu berpaling pada kasih atas bantuan dan anda sentiasa membantu saya keluar Sekarang saya butuh bantuan anda lagi .. Ketika aku mati, anda akan mengikuti saya dan menemaniku?" "Maaf, saya tidak boleh membantu anda kali ini!" jawab isteri 2. "Paling-paling, aku hanya boleh menghantar anda ke kubur anda."

Jawabannya muncul seperti sambaran petir dan pedagang sangat terpukul. Kemudian sebuah suara berseru: "Aku akan pergi bersamamu aku akan mengikutmu di mana pun anda pergi .. Pedagang itu mendongak dan ada isteri pertamanya. Dia begitu kurus, hampir seperti dia menderita gizi buruk. Sangat sedih , peniaga itu berkata, "Seharusnya aku lebih baik menjaga anda sementara saya boleh!"

Kita semua mempunyai 4 isteri dalam hidup kita. Isteri 4 adalah tubuh kita. Tidak peduli berapa banyak waktu dan usaha yang kita mewah dalam membuatnya terlihat bagus, itu akan meninggalkan kita ketika kita mati.

isteri 3 kami adalah harta milik kita, status dan kekayaan. Ketika kita mati, mereka semua pergi kepada orang lain.

Isteri 2 adalah keluarga dan teman-teman. Tidak peduli seberapa dekat mereka telah ada bagi kita ketika kita masih hidup, paling jauh mereka boleh tinggal dengan kita sampai ke liang kubur.

1 isteri sebenarnya adalah jiwa kita, sering diabaikan dalam mengejar kita kekayaan kebendaan dan kesenangan sensual. Hal ini sebenarnya satu-satunya hal yang berikut kita kemanapun kita pergi. Mungkin itu idea yang baik untuk menumbuhkan dan mempererat sekarang daripada menunggu sehingga kami di tempat tidur kami untuk meratapi kematian.
 
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