hani85
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Yeah, that's what i said.. no need to change, just continue to be who u are.. the thing is, knowing what is the right thing to do, in the right time.. some girls are girly, some girls are tough.. if u have a can-do attitude, u don't need to be girly to get men's attention.. i'll share something with u.. when i was in college, i was popular amongst the boys/men/staff there.. i could get favors whenever i want.. it's not because i was being girly or playing a victim.. but i was just that - friendly, with everyone.. i would say Hi to the staff, waved them from afar everytime i saw them passing them.. let's just say, i mingled with everyone until my 'crazy roomate' got jealous.. there is a way of being FRIENDLY but getting respect, and there is a way of being girly and men wanting to 'wham bam thank mam' u... u know what i mean? Just be friendly with everyone, say hi to people, 'Morning abg mat... baru nak breakfast ke?' small question like that, but trust me, people will remember u for small talks like that, actually...![]()
thats good sharing. as for me, i might be more shy than u :">. sometimes i feel like awkward to treat men especially those whom i can see do have special interest towards me. i dont know how to treat them. am afraid that they would read my treatment as something else. at the end of the day i ended up backing off because i feel a lil bit uncomfortable
and apparently i have pretty serious face. when am in normal mood, i hardly smiles. only when i remind myself "hey smile!" then i'll remember to smile. i really want to be like those people who can smile freely on their own accord. this is what am working on right now. practice makes perfect isnt it.