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[gadisperiang]

i guess thats whats happening nowadays... most people, not just students, prefer to take the easier way out.. they just wanna think for today, not for the long run.. it's not wrong to live in the moment, but gotta ensure ur doing it the right way.. knowing where is the limit... see what chaos we're living in nowadays.. no wonder kids grow up and imitate us, coz that's what they see in school and at home, and on tv...

agree with you sis aurelia.

i just don't know ho to blame anymore. maybe us, maybe the others. but the best thing, for now, is that to find the solutions to this matter, not blaming others right. but the problem arise is, what's the best solution? thinking about it, i guess, it's important to take action from now on. we're going to have kids too right.

 

[hani85]

what?? u passed the exam?? what did u do? did u cheat? :-? gotcha! ) ) all praise to Allah.. congrats, then now u should treat urself with something nice... go out and buy a new outfit, have a new hair style, go eat something good.. pamper urself.. u earned it.. oh, by the way, u should go for the acupuncture.. my sweetie told me that there was someone who wasn't able to walk for years because of stroke, and after only a few sessions doing acupuncture, she was able to walk again... and now she was able to totally walk like normal... i'm thinking of doing it as well prolly next month.. who knows, it could cure my gastric problem.. #:-S

unfortunately i dont have much budget for that (for celebrate). but my bf already bought me sneakers there in us :">. n other stuffs will come along. if only the increase the max weight of luggage to be checked in #:-S

how much is the acupuncture? actually i want to do it for sooo long. thanks for reminding me

 

[hani85]

yeah, i guess some won't like us, some will.. especially on forums, all u can see are words on the screen.. what do we know abt the person typing them out in real world? unless we meet them in the real world, in my opinion, it's best not to judge whatever we read on our computer screen.. i met lotsa people who appear to be nice on the forum, but when u actually meet them outside, u regret ever knowing them in the 1st place.. and someone who may look mean on the forum, could turn out to be a nice and kind human being in reality.. so who can say? i've learnt this the hard way..

btw, i remember what my classmate wrote on my bio before high-school was over many many years ago.. she said, 'once in a while, u need to get a change coz without changing, it will be a dull moment, and u can't improve urself...' those were her exact words and i still remember them today, as if it was only yesterday... i hope it gives u something positive to think of...

words on the screen wont really reflect all of the person's behaviour, but maybe it would for some people. as for me, in the cyber space i like to picture myself as a very "harsh" girl with all those vulgar words. in real actually am not that kinda person really. maybe some sort of "self defense mechanism" from uninvited people

n i also learn something too, today. i knew this guy, from internet, specifically, in CG. he is an sap expert, n when we get to know each other at first, he said he would help me and everything in sap, o guidance, jobs and all. he was quite nice, and am kinda believe that he would do as he said. but as time passed by, only things he did was, boasting on his salary and how "hot" he's in the market because of his expertise and all, n it really piss me off. i mean he can do that at the beginning when i just started to learn sap, but now its a different case. am looking for a job and am unemployed, so how's that relevant in our conversation? if he's trying to impress me, thats kinda boolsheet dont u think so? if he came with the ohlala stories along with the offer to pass my resume to his networks, that would be ok. but since we started to know each other until now, he was only boasting on his career. such an empty promises. #:-S. after this i wont trust anybody i never meet from cyber space wholeheartedly.

i mean its ok if he really doesnt want to help but stop telling all those annoying stories to at-the-moment-jobless person like me. sooo annoying.

 

[AureLia]

unfortunately i dont have much budget for that (for celebrate). but my bf already bought me sneakers there in us :">. n other stuffs will come along. if only the increase the max weight of luggage to be checked in #:-S

how much is the acupuncture? actually i want to do it for sooo long. thanks for reminding me

Acupuncture is kinda cheap, abt RM30 per hour. My sweetie asked me to go for 10 sessions (10 hours per session, so 10 sessions = RM3K). There's this lady who's doing it inside her home, and she's a Malay (she learnt acupuncture from a japanese if i'm not mistaken). If u wanna go for 10 hours, it will only cost u abt RM300. U can straightaway do a 4-hour therapy or a 1-2 hours to kick it off with.. if u see any positive signs, then maybe u can do more, add more hours.. i'm not sure the price at other chinese shops..

 

[AureLia]

words on the screen wont really reflect all of the person's behaviour, but maybe it would for some people. as for me, in the cyber space i like to picture myself as a very "harsh" girl with all those vulgar words. in real actually am not that kinda person really. maybe some sort of "self defense mechanism" from uninvited people

n i also learn something too, today. i knew this guy, from internet, specifically, in CG. he is an sap expert, n when we get to know each other at first, he said he would help me and everything in sap, o guidance, jobs and all. he was quite nice, and am kinda believe that he would do as he said. but as time passed by, only things he did was, boasting on his salary and how "hot" he's in the market because of his expertise and all, n it really piss me off. i mean he can do that at the beginning when i just started to learn sap, but now its a different case. am looking for a job and am unemployed, so how's that relevant in our conversation? if he's trying to impress me, thats kinda boolsheet dont u think so? if he came with the ohlala stories along with the offer to pass my resume to his networks, that would be ok. but since we started to know each other until now, he was only boasting on his career. such an empty promises. #:-S. after this i wont trust anybody i never meet from cyber space wholeheartedly.

i mean its ok if he really doesnt want to help but stop telling all those annoying stories to at-the-moment-jobless person like me. sooo annoying.

Hurm.. why don't u just remind him that he promised to help u earlier on? Ask him, what's up? Can he help u or he won't? Get a specific answer, and see how he replies. If he really helps u out, good for u. If he gives u a negative feedback, well then, stop talking to him if it's only annoying u. I don't mean we should be friends with people only to seek benefits from it, but if someone promised u something, then the promise should be carried out. If not, in the hereafter, we will be asked by God of our broken promises. Never simply promise anything to someone if u can't or not sure u will fulfill it. But there's a LOTTTTT of this type of people everywhere around us, it's unbelieveable...

 

[Cacharias]

words on the screen wont really reflect all of the person's behaviour, but maybe it would for some people. as for me, in the cyber space i like to picture myself as a very "harsh" girl with all those vulgar words. in real actually am not that kinda person really. maybe some sort of "self defense mechanism" from uninvited people

n i also learn something too, today. i knew this guy, from internet, specifically, in CG. he is an sap expert, n when we get to know each other at first, he said he would help me and everything in sap, o guidance, jobs and all. he was quite nice, and am kinda believe that he would do as he said. but as time passed by, only things he did was, boasting on his salary and how "hot" he's in the market because of his expertise and all, n it really piss me off. i mean he can do that at the beginning when i just started to learn sap, but now its a different case. am looking for a job and am unemployed, so how's that relevant in our conversation? if he's trying to impress me, thats kinda boolsheet dont u think so? if he came with the ohlala stories along with the offer to pass my resume to his networks, that would be ok. but since we started to know each other until now, he was only boasting on his career. such an empty promises. #:-S. after this i wont trust anybody i never meet from cyber space wholeheartedly.

i mean its ok if he really doesnt want to help but stop telling all those annoying stories to at-the-moment-jobless person like me. sooo annoying.

empty and broken promises, who might that guy be?
from this thread? then he should be banished forever.

 

[hani85]

Acupuncture is kinda cheap, abt RM30 per hour. My sweetie asked me to go for 10 sessions (10 hours per session, so 10 sessions = RM3K). There's this lady who's doing it inside her home, and she's a Malay (she learnt acupuncture from a japanese if i'm not mistaken). If u wanna go for 10 hours, it will only cost u abt RM300. U can straightaway do a 4-hour therapy or a 1-2 hours to kick it off with.. if u see any positive signs, then maybe u can do more, add more hours.. i'm not sure the price at other chinese shops..

so how long would that 10 session would last? the price isnt that cheap. if i really want to go then i have to start collecting money from now )

have to think bout it real thorough.

 

[hani85]

Hurm.. why don't u just remind him that he promised to help u earlier on? Ask him, what's up? Can he help u or he won't? Get a specific answer, and see how he replies. If he really helps u out, good for u. If he gives u a negative feedback, well then, stop talking to him if it's only annoying u. I don't mean we should be friends with people only to seek benefits from it, but if someone promised u something, then the promise should be carried out. If not, in the hereafter, we will be asked by God of our broken promises. Never simply promise anything to someone if u can't or not sure u will fulfill it. But there's a LOTTTTT of this type of people everywhere around us, it's unbelieveable...

he wasnt specifically said, i promise u i ll help u and bla3. it was just his words were promising. but i dont really mind about that really. what makes me pissed off was, why the hell was him telling all those stories about his pay and outstanding career while he knows already am unemployed? at the first (when i started to join sap 5 months ago) it was ok cuz it keeps me motivated and kinda eye opener for me. but at this stage its not motivating anymore, its irritating. because i already know what kinda salary he get. yes fine u earn 20k a month, so what? i mean almost everytime he tell the same stories (about his success) over and over.

if he doesnt wanna help fine. but those stories, like, defak? at least be more sensitive on how people are feeling. unless right now am already employed i dont care that much #:-S

anyway i already unfriend him yesterday.

 

[AureLia]

so how long would that 10 session would last? the price isnt that cheap. if i really want to go then i have to start collecting money from now )

have to think bout it real thorough.

Well, 1 session = 10 hours. It's really up to you how you adjust your time. I mean, for the 1st time, you can ask the lady to do it for 4 hours straight, so you'll have a balance of 6 hours left if you intend to do a 10-hour session. Next time you come, you can do 6 hours straight, or divide it into 2 parts.. Once you've done a 10-hour therapy, that means you've done 1 session... how soon you finish your session, is really up to you.. but i think you should try a few hours first to see how it goes...

 

[AureLia]

he wasnt specifically said, i promise u i ll help u and bla3. it was just his words were promising. but i dont really mind about that really. what makes me pissed off was, why the hell was him telling all those stories about his pay and outstanding career while he knows already am unemployed? at the first (when i started to join sap 5 months ago) it was ok cuz it keeps me motivated and kinda eye opener for me. but at this stage its not motivating anymore, its irritating. because i already know what kinda salary he get. yes fine u earn 20k a month, so what? i mean almost everytime he tell the same stories (about his success) over and over.

if he doesnt wanna help fine. but those stories, like, defak? at least be more sensitive on how people are feeling. unless right now am already employed i dont care that much #:-S

anyway i already unfriend him yesterday.

If i were you, i would just ask directly, 'can u help me bla bla..' if he gives a lot of excuses, then i know he never has the intention to help me in the 1st place, so i'll move on.. sometimes it's easier to just ask for help directly.. if they refuse or give lotsa excuses, then we'll know what type of people they are... 'the ones who like to boast a lot..' hehe..